Are you living according to what matters most—or just what’s most urgent?
In the busyness of modern life, it’s easy to drift into autopilot—reacting to demands, chasing goals, and meeting expectations. But when we lose sight of our core values, we also lose the key to answering yes to the questions that matter most.
Why Core Values Are Central to The 3 Life Questions
Your core values drive the behaviors that enable you to express your Authentic Best Self. When you’re clear on what matters most and align your actions accordingly, you move in a direction that will enable you to answer “Yes!” to The 3 Life Questions:
- Live Authentically – You make choices that reflect your true self, not someone else’s expectations.
- Cultivate Meaningful Relationships – You connect with others from a place of integrity, honesty, and shared values.
- Make the World a Little Better – You contribute in ways that align with what you believe in, making your impact more intentional and lasting.
Living your values isn’t about perfection—it’s about direction. It brings coherence to your life and allows you to move through the world with clarity and confidence.
Signs You’re Disconnected from Your Values
- You say “yes” when you mean “no.”
- You feel successful but strangely unfulfilled.
- You’re exhausted from chasing goals that don’t inspire you.
How to Reconnect with Your Core Values
- Reflect on Peak Moments – When did you feel most alive or proud? What values were you honoring?
- Notice Emotional Triggers – Strong emotions often reveal where values are being neglected or violated.
- Identify 3–5 Guiding Values – Write them down, define them in your own words, and ask: Am I living in alignment with these? (For a free tool that will help you identify your Core Values, visit https://viacharacter.org).
Your Challenge This Week:
Choose one core value and intentionally act on it in your personal or professional life. Notice how it affects your ability to answer yes to at least one of The 3 Life Questions.